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Monday, February 8, 2010

Drive-thru "Bappertizing"

Yesterday at church we had a baby dedication for little Eli. He was one of the most fun little babies to watch go through the baby dedication. Anyway, the whole thing left quite an impression on Shelby.

After rest time and afternoon snacks I caved in to the children's requests to go outside. We put on our jackets and spent some time wondering around in the empty lots next to our house. One of the coolest things we saw was a huge bald eagle fly through the woods and perch right on a tree next to our house. We watched him for about 10 minutes or so before he flew away...very cool!!! Once we discovered all there was to discover we made our way back out to the street and as we got there Shelby said, "JP, let me bappertize you. Drive around the circle on your bike." So JP drove around the circle on his bike and then pulled up right next to Shelby. She put her hand in my cup for some water, placed her hand on his head and said, "All right, you are bappertized. Now it is my turn." Then Shelby road around the circle on JP's bike and the same process repeated itself for her. I almost fell on the ground laughing. I mean, I don't think have seen anything cuter!! My only disappointment was that I didn't have my camera out for a picture. They took turns "bappertizing" each other for about 20 minutes and then I guess they figured that was an adequate amount of times, plus they started to run low on water.

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Bubble Baths and Clean Rooms

Wow! How fast does time fly?!?!? I can't believe that it is already February 2010!! Things here this year have been very busy. We started out the year with our trip to Belize (pictures are coming soon). And we have been running and running ever since. That first week home Pratt traveled, then he was home for a week, then he was gone again, then he was home for two weeks and now he is in Argentina to visit with Suzy and her family. Leading up to this last trip we tried to spend as much time together as we could because of the length of the trip.

What can be more fun than a bubble bath in a jacuzzi tub and a super fun dad who doesn't get all worried about the thought of clean up?? The children love taking bubble bathes with Pratt because he is the laid back one in the marriage. It is so great too because if it were up to me, I am afraid that Shelby and JP would get rather bored and frustrated. Here is their latest bubble bath adventure. They actually did a wonderful job of keeping all the bubbles and water in the tub which they never do when it is just me. Of course with all those bubbles it is kind of hard to really move around and splash too much:)

Like I said in my last post, we are officially done with naps. Instead Shelby and JP have about an hour of "rest time" where they can play in their rooms. I think that JP's sleep habits are finally getting better. It took about a week of him still getting up early, but yesterday he slept until 7:30 and he has been falling asleep much easier at night. On Thursday while we were still in the adjustment period he was initially going wild at "rest time", but all the sudden it was dead silent and this is what Pratt and I found when we went to get him up.....I imagine that the chair was more comfortable than the floor from earlier in the week.....

As I mentioned earlier, Pratt is out of town. I know that it has only been a few days since he left, but I am really trying to keep things fun and busy for the children. Yesterday we made pancakes for breakfast. Shelby and JP were great helpers in the kitchen and got really excited to have their own bowls and get to pick their own color of pancake. I am still trying to get down the technique for cooking pancakes and have to give my self a pat on the back with these ones because of the 12 I cooked, only 4 got burned so bad that I had to throw them away:) Yay Me!
Here are the little cooks stirring in their food coloring...Shelby selected pink and JP went for the green...


JP had his three check up this week. Three years!!!! I just can't believe it. He is doing great...right on track for everything and very much to my surprise, he measured in the 75% for both height (38 and 1/2 in) and weight (34lbs). I really have always felt that he was on the smaller side of average, but maybe that was just my mind trying to hold on to that baby stage for as long as I could.
During rest time yesterday Shelby announced that she was going to clean her room. And, can you believe it, but she actually did; she even made her bed which I really had no idea she knew how to do. It was amazing. Everything was put away and in the right spot. She put her clothes away and made her bed. I can't tell you how proud I was of her!!! Truly amazing!!! The funny thing was that last night when it was bed time she didn't like the idea of unmaking her bed one bit so she slept on top of her made bed. That is one thing I just don't get about her....she absolutely, strongly dislikes covers. She would rather freeze than put a blanket on her. Myself on the other hand, well, I fell like I might fall out of bed if I don't have three layers of covering holding me in.

Friday, January 29, 2010

No more naptime:(

You know when there is that little voice in the back of your head telling you to make a change, but you resist because you think that the benefits of leaving something how it is far out weighs the benefits the change will bring and then suddenly you reach a point and without any warning at all you make the change...do you know that feeling? Well, for sometime now I have been having that little nudge telling me that it was time to cut out naps from our daily routine. I have been ignoring it and ignoring it because it was really nice to have 2 hours everyday to get things accomplished around the house, but this week I reached a point and could no longer ignore the "voice." After night after night of JP staying up until 9:00 every night and waking up between 5:30 and 6:00 every morning, I finally had enough and decided that from now on we are going to have 45 minutes of rest time in their rooms where they can play quietly, read, or whatever. So we are trying this and so far things are going better. JP definitely falls asleep more quickly at night and he is sleeping until about 6:45 every morning (I am hoping that this improves 'til atleast 7:00 or so...please, please, please!). Well, yesterday afternoon JP hit a wall. He was watching golf with Pratt and all the sudden he was snoring on the floor. It was so cute that I couldn't resist taking a picture. If you remember from a while back, JP fell asleep on the floor in nearly this exact same spot after getting up particularly early one morning.

In other news-last week was my birthday! It was a great week! Pratt and I had plans to go on a date, but as we have learned and continue to learn, you need to be flexible when you are a parent because you never know what will come up. Unfortunately Shelby got hit hard with a stomach virus and we had to cancel. Hopefully we will get to reschedule soon! On my actual birthday some girlfriends took me to Outback for dessert and let me tell you, we ate our weight in dessert and it was sooooooooooooooooooo good!!! The night that we had planned for our date we ended up doing an "in house" date night. It was nice and relaxing and we really enjoyed catching up with each other and catching up on some of our shows. My dear friend Erin whose creativity is always flowing gave me one of the best gifts of all....it combined two of my favorite things...cake and High School Musical!!! She made me a High School Musical Guitar cake and I loved it! "High School Musical???" some of you might say..and I say "yes! I love those movies." Musicals one some of the best movies around. Also, it is a love story of a couple in high school (the cool dude and the new girl) which kind of reminds me of my love story with Pratt. So here is a picture of my cake!!! It tasted delicious!!

Finally, Pratt surprised me at church on Sunday with the flowers. This is one of the biggest and most beautiful arrangements I have ever seen and I was truly surprised and felt so loved when I saw them.
I don't really have anything to report on Shelby right now. She is growing and learning and really enjoying school. It is hard to believe and doesn't even sound right when I tell people that she is almost 5, but no matter how weird it is, it is true. One quick story about her....last weekend I was going to mom and dad's for dinner because Pratt was out of town. On the way down I called Lauren to tell her we were coming and we chatted for a little bit. When I got off the phone a million questions came out of Shelby with regards to our conversation. I politely told her that she didn't need to know everything to which she replied, "Yes, mommy, I do. I want to be the girl who knows everything all the time." Oh dear, looks like I am going to have to figure out away to know everything all the time as well in order to answer all her questions.


Friday, January 15, 2010

Christmas Pictures...FINALLY!!!

Finally...here are some pictures from Christmas and once again I managed to upload all of them in reverse order so we will do a rewind of Christmas. By the end of the day, I hate to admit, I was so tired that I didn't even think about getting out my camera to take pictures at my family's house so unfortunately we have nothing from our fun evening together, but we do have the memories in our hearts and hopefully my mom got some great shots that she will share with me (hint, hint).

We will start with our Christmas at Papa John and Grammie's....here is JP, Uncle Jake and Shelby all getting into one of JP's favorite things of the day, the tractor bike....He was so cute with this. At one point he had on his hard hat, his rain boots, his tool belt, and got on the tractor like he was ready for work. We just died laughing at him all afternoon!

Then rewind a little bit more to our fun Christmas at Aunt Suzy and Uncle Patricio's with Meme. Every year Meme makes this wonderful breakfast of Monkey Bread and Country Ham Biscuits. It is so delicious and here are all the children around the table enjoying the yummy food.

A family shot in front of the tree with Meme....


This picture is particularly cute for me because everytime I see it the memories of that moment become so vivid for me. It is almost like it is happening all over again. After we opened all the presents under the tree we moved on to our stockings. JP and Shelby got some really great gifts and quit frankly I was a little shocked over the joy with which JP was overcome when he opened this....He unwrapped it and triumphantly held it up and exclaimed, "A fashlight! Yes!!!"

Here is a before picture from Christmas Eve when Shelby and JP were still in a room together and excited about their sleeping bags. Notice how JP is all tucked in and Shelby isn't...that girl, I am telling you, it could be 20 degrees and she still wouldn't sleep with a blanket over her. She definitely subscribes to the less is more philosophy when it comes to clothing and covers.

Shelby and JP were so excited to open a gift on Christmas Eve. Again, note Shelby's outfit....she is wearing one of her spring dresses from last year (thankfully we convinced her to wear a long sleeve shirt under it), no tights/leggings/socks, and her light up pink cowboy boots. Not exactly your traditional Christmas Eve dress, but she loved it. I am telling you the girl has her own sense of style!!!

Before the picture above we spent time at Papa John and Grammie's for a Christmas Eve dinner. The children were so excited to see their Uncle Jake and had the most fun playing with him. This is a great picture the captures the essence of the evening with Uncle Jake.

And to close...last year at the Christmas Eve service we got a picture of Shelby very similar to this one where she was holding her candle and so I wanted to try to get one of JP this year. I tell you, is there anything more innocent then this!!!
Silent Night, Holy night. All is calm, all is bright.

We hope that everyone had a wonderful Christmas filled with lots of joy and great memories. We pray that as this new year gets under way that you will find peace and comfort in Jesus!




Conversation with JP

Today as I was putting my sweet buddy to bed this was our sign off.....

Mom- "Night, night JP. Have a great nap."
JP- "Night, night...no wait, I mean, Merry Christmas."
Mom- "Merry Christmas, JP."

So funny that he is still saying Merry Christmas!!!

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Happy 3rd Birthday Buddy!

There is so much to blog about, but right now I am going to take time to blog to my little buddy who turns 3 today.

To my sweet JP: I can't believe that you are 3 today, 3!!! It is just crazy, happy, and sad all at once that you are growing so fast. It seems like just yesterday we were terribly sleep deprived and nothing would get you to stop crying. Now you are a happy sweet boy who is gaining more and more independence everyday. You love to be outside riding your bike and your scooter; you love to climb trees and play in the dirt. Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine that time would go by so fast. You are our sweet son and Shelby's dear brother. We love you so much!!!

So today is the day that JP turns 3!!! It is just amazing that he is 3! I think that if I say it enough it will sink in; but also, the more I say it, the more strange it sounds. To think that three years ago today it was a Saturday. Pratt and I were at Wild Wings watching Clemson go for the 19th win verses Maryland to open their season 19-0 and before the game even ended Pratt and I went to the hospital and later that night we had our baby boy. All along I thought we would have a girl and even 30 minutes before he was born we were only talking about girl names; and then to our great surprise we had a boy and what a blessing he is to us. It is an exciting day, but also in a way a sad day to think of how big he is getting and how he really isn't a baby anymore. Don't get me wrong, I am glad that his baby days are over as he proved to be on the difficult end of the baby spectrum, but at the same time I do miss all those moments with him and strangly enough sometimes I miss the middle of the night feedings with him when the world is quiet

We have had a day of celebrating so far. It started this morning at 7:00 when JP woke up. I went into his room, gave him a great big hug and said, "Happy Birthday buddy! You are 3 today." He looked me straight in the eye and said, "Happy Birthday!"-kind of like you tell someone Merry Christmas after they say it to you. It was the cutest thing. When I put him down for his nap I told him happy birthday again and he said it back to me. Then as I was walking out of his room he says, "Hey, hey, hey, hey mom...Merry Christmas!" with the sweetest little grin that anyone has ever seen. So, back on track. We went to Moe's after CBS, as is our routine every Wednesday, with the Usserys and Alberts. It was so much fun. My dear, sweet friend, Erin, made a guitar cake for JP and we all sang "Happy Birthday" to the birthday boy. Afterward Erin asked JP which part of the cake he wanted and he said the middle part with all the sprinkles so Erin very neatly cut out the center of the guitar and lifted up the middle piece without messing anything up. Of course, JP just ate the sprinkles and icing off the top, but he enjoyed every last bit of it.


I looked and looked through pictures from last year and really couldn't find one that gave a whole shot of his face, so this one will do. I don't feel like his face looks all that different than it did a year ago, but you can definitely tell that his hair has gotten thicker! I am telling you, his hair grows like weeds and I love every last curl on his adorable head. So much has changed in this last year...he goes to school now, he talks all the time, asks questions non stop about anything and everything, loves to be with his friends, sleeps in a big boy bed, sleeps through the night more nights than he doesn't, loves to sing, plays pretend with Shelby all the time, and on and on.

When JP turned one we were on a family trip to the mountains. The hat in this picture is probably familiar. He still loves to wear this hat and I am getting nervous about what we are going to do when his head finally grows out of it. Funny that the hat still fits two years later....

And now to the picture that always makes me get a little emotional about how fast time really goes. It just doesn't seem right that three years have gone by so fast and this little, helpless baby in my arms is now my sweet little monkey boy who even climbs stairs with one foot on one step at a time. I mean, he couldn't even hold his head up three years ago!!!
JP-never forget how much God loves you and how much we love you. You are a sweet precious gift from God! Thanks for all the laughter, joy, and love you bring to our family.
PS-in case you were wondering, Clemson lost the game against Maryland three years ago and I still maintain to this day that if Pratt had let me stay to watch the end that they would have won:) (oh come on babe-you knew I couldn't finish this post without mentioning that....love you!)

Monday, December 28, 2009

Happy Birthday Jesus!!

Wow!!! What an amazing last few weeks we have had...so much has happened and I can't pick out just a few pictures to post so I am going to tell stories in one post and then do pictures in another. Here we go.....

Shelby's Christmas program at school was so wonderful. It started out with the Elementary students singing a few songs and then playing "Joy to the World" on their flutaphones (not quite sure on the spelling of that one). Then they brought out the primary classes and Shelby looked so cute, so little, yet so big all at once up there on the stage. I am sure that I was literally radiating with love and joy over watching her sing. It makes me tear up when I think that next year she will be in kindergarten!!!

Christmas is always a very busy time of year for us and this year proved to be the norm, but we did enjoy a little more down time than usual because many of our friends were traveling and there also weren't the 600 parties to go to that we usually attend. The week of Christmas we drove down to see Dove Street lights and that trip rated right up there with the trip to Charleston two years ago to see the lights...it was, well, how can I put this a nice as possible...it was filled with lots of noisy, and not the pleasant kind of noise that makes you smile. At any rate, we survived and have decided that next year we are going to try to combine it with having dinner with my family or something.

We had a lovely Christmas Eve celebrating the birth of our Savior. We started out the day by taking the children to the movies with our neighbors. It was so much fun! This was only Shelby's second movie ever and JP's first. Pratt and I were a little skeptical about how they would do, but both of them sat through the entire movie and really enjoyed it. At 5:00 we went to the candlelight service at our church and it was by far one of the best ones they have had that I can remember. The church was almost full and the music was beautiful. We sang lots of traditional Christmas hymns and then there was a short sermon. After that we sang "Silent Night." They dimmed the lights and we all held lit candles. It was just beautiful. Shelby and JP looked like little angels holding their candles. After church we went to Papa and Grammie's house for a fun get together. Shelby was so excited to see Uncle Jake!! She latched onto him and didn't let go the entire night. It was so cute...I just love watching her! JP kind of wandered around the house and enjoyed all the attention he was getting. The Cranston family joined us and it was great to see them. Pastor Jeff was such a trooper. He preached 4 services by the time he got to the house. He looked a bit on the tired side when he walked in, but for some reason JP really took to him and it wasn't but 10 seconds that he sat down and then JP started whacking him with a pool noodle. Thankfully Pastor Jeff is a fun guy and before we knew it he had JP doing those deep belly laughs that got us all tickled. Dinner was sooooo good and what a feast!!! By the time we left and got home it was almost 9:00.

Traditionally we let the children open a small gift of Christmas pjs on Christmas Eve. Shelby called it out before she even opened hers. It was kind of funny, but also kind of sad to realize that she is getting so big now that her memory goes beyond what happened just a few minutes ago. We also gave them sleeping bags this year and told them that they could sleep in them together in Shelby's room. JP was all over that, but Shelby wasn't too sure. It didn't take her long to decide that she preferred the softness of her bed over the hardness of sleeping on the floor. JP lasted a little longer, but eventually (around 11:00) he ended up in his bed as well. We will try that again next year and maybe they will be able to handle sharing a bed together.

What a day Christmas Day was for us!!! We had the best time seeing all of our family and celebrating with everyone. Our day started at 7:30 with JP waking up so we went on ahead and got Shelby up. They had a wonderful time opening all their presents and with each gift JP got he would get more and more excited. At 9:00 we went to Aunt Suzy and Uncle Patricio's house to see them, baby Sebastian, Meme and Christina. Meme made her famous monkey bread and country ham biscuits. Again, the children had so much fun opening gifts and playing with their cousin. At 11:00 we packed up, made a quick stop at home to unload and get some things, then headed over to Papa and Grammie's. JP took one look at the tree and kind of just walked around all confused and excited about all the presents that were there. I mean, you could hardly walk into the living room because there was so much and he just stood there in awe. At one point he could hardly take it any more and after he had opened a tool set to go with his new tractor he just threw his hands up in the air in total disbelief that things just kept getting better and better. Once all the presents were open we sat down to eat lunch and relax for a bit. At 2:30 we came home for some rest! We were up and at 'em again at 5:00 and made the trip to the island to see my family. We opened presents with them, relaxed, enjoyed some dessert and played. Shelby and JP had such a good time all day and despite how tired they were and how much we dragged them around all day they were great little troopers and very well behaved the whole day!!!

Since then we have been trying to get things back to normal before our trip to Belize this weekend. The house looks like a toy bomb exploded and trying to find places to put everything is going to be a challenge....thank goodness we were proactive and did a sweep through all the toys before Christmas. We are also making an effort to get Shelby and JP to bed on time after a week of staying up late. Everynight we put them to bed JP says, "I want to hide." So we pull the covers up over his head and say good night. As we walk out the door he says, "Mommy, mommy, wait." And I turn around and say, "Yes buddy." Then he peeks his little head out of his covers and says, with the biggest smile, "Merry Christmas." It is so cute and makes me laugh every time.

Merry Christmas to all!!! We pray that you all will know the peace that comes with a personal relationship with Jesus Christ!!!!